What is the female version of bros before hos?

I know between my friends it was an understanding that you NEVER DATED any of your friends exs. Now if it is no problem for the friend that previously went out with the guy that is one thing.

When you go out with someone for years though I think it is a different story.
This happened between two friends of mine.

I just do not agree with dating someone that a friend has previously dated. Not to mention my one friend just broke things off in January and was living with the guy. And the other friends motto was friends before guys. Oh how her motto has changed. She didn’t even have the decency to call the one friend before dating the guy. She called after a few dates! UN-FREAKIN-BELIEVABLE!

The one that went on the date pisses me off. I know that it is hard to find nice guys out there. But she knew her friend before him…. and she knew the whole story behind the breakup and the relationship and she still went out with him. I can’t believe that she didn’t think about things before going on a date with him. That it didn’t even cross her mind to call to see how her friend felt about it. That is unexcusable in my eyes. Definitely someone I don’t want to hang with anymore. I will miss alot of things about her and how we connected. But to do something and not think and be so hurtful! It is just wrong!

I am trying to think of something that rhymes… can’t think of it. But even so I think Bros before Hos sums it up, even for females.

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Happy Birthday Julianna!

A very Happy Birthday goes out to my friend Julianna. She is my friend from Athens. I met her a month before I had heart surgery! Still keep in touch with her today.

Next year Julianna will be celebrating her first Birthday being a Mom.

Hope you have a fantastic day!

Today is Dads Birthday.

This year is an extra special Birthday. It is his first Birthday being retired! I don’t think he is used to it yet.

I think he will be soon and really enjoy getting to do what he wants to do when he wants to do it. He will also have alot more time to spend with Cheryl. They were always working differnt schedules.

Happy Birthday Daddy! Love you!

I bought a flower planter about a month ago and planted yellow mums and 2 fuschia aster.

I was thinking that the weather would be going down to the 80s. We are having a freak heat wave now. It has been in the 90s for the last couple weeks. I tried keeping them watered, but nothing has helped.

I am going to wait to the first week in October and buy some more mums and plant them. I am also going to get a second planter to hang off the the window and plant some pansies.

I hate that the plants have died. Luckily they are affordable! 

I had a bit of a lull at work today and I was in my email. I had emails as old as November of 2004!

That is the month before my heart surgery!

When I have more time I am going to look through them more closely. I did see one that I wrote to Maribeth about how Joe and I went out and met some new people. It was Julianna!

Wow the time really flies by! Almost 3 years since that email and almost 3 years since my surgery.

Today would have been Moms Birthday if she was still living.  It is her Birthday.

Still miss her… will never stop.  I wonder where my life would have taken me if she were still living.

Today is the slowest day ever! At work and there is nothing going on.

I did make a nice fall display this morning. A couple of patients have been attracted to it. That is a good thing!

This past weekend Joe and I wanted to see Across the Universe. We were really bummed to find out that they are holding it from wide release. There is a fight going on with the creator and the movie studio. The movie studio wants her to cut out 30 minutes of the movie and she refuses. I am hoping that it at least gets to DVD because I REALLY want to see it!

Jamie’s Birthday

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Tonight Joe and I went to Lauri and John’s place in Uptown Charlotte to help Celebrate Jamie’s 28th Birthday!

Lee and Dave came as well. We all had a wonderful time great food and great conversation.

Here is a very pretty picture of the Birthday Girl.

We love you Jamie!